(TORONTO, ON) – A woman with roots in Thunder Bay moved to Toronto and has since run into a substantial nose-related issued.
24-year-old Allyson D was held hostage shortly after leaving a nightclub. Her boyfriend, the alleged perpetrator of the incident then bit part of her nose off.
This incident unfolded during New Years’ celebrations.
Allyson wants everyone to know that she does not want to be known as someone seeking pity but rather wants to encourage other women to speak up and out about domestic violence.
Police searched her boyfriends (now ex, presumably) house for the missing chunk of the nose. It is believed it was either swallowed to discarded as the K9-Unit could not locate the bitten off chunk of the nose.
“This is never ok !! OKAY ?! Firstly know I am not a domestic abuse VICTIM I won’t be known as someone wanting to share a message that of pitty and shame in fact I want my story to help others know of this this domestic abuse situation. Being in that this is the extent I was brought to by bringing back into my life the “ex bf that was “. never ever EVER do I want another to go threw the excruciating pain, the trauma of blood pouring into your clothes as it was a piece of facial tissue that had been chewed off as I was. I was beyond in shock and horrific realization when I saw my image in a mirror 2 hours after the incident I couldn’t believe it to be true .. but this is my life now I have a hole missing off my nose. I have a bandage that must always have to be covering the wound to prevent infection. I will have a skin graft from a piece taken off my ear that they use as they couldn’t use the flesh that was ripped off of my nose on account he either swallowed it or flushed it in the toilet. All I know is that we got thought this. THIS isn’t about me ok this is about WE never again will we as a woman stay silent towards domestic abuse !! I was attacked by him in August.. New Years after we went out to efs and went back to his house he took it to this point and further more the attacks only got worse since I got back w him . Ladies know you are NOT alone . I am not a victim but a survivor and a voice !!!!!! Had I not escaped out of the house he held me against my will in: I probably never would of survived .. let’s not look at this at this as a pitty but a righteous act I CANNOT BE BROKEN. But I can use my voice to help others . Thank you thank you thank you god !!!!! I got bigger plans in this existence of mine Allyson is no where near her end of life although he nearly murdered me we are just getting started in my own life plan ; his jealousy over me and beatings and mental abuse he put me threw are not enough to stop ME . This was a mere minor set back . No man no woman can hold me back from my blessings I have to come not even his satanic self ; try again we god the lord and Jesus Christ on our side and our voice can not be silenced !!!!!!” Said Ally D.
Allyson says she is scheduled to have surgery that will use parts of her ear to reconstruct the missing chunk of her nose that was violently bitten off during the New Years’ celebrations. Police are aware of the situation and are pursuing the investigation. Charges are expected to be laid if they haven’t already.
The victim grew up in Thunder Bay and attended school here for some time. She has many friends and is well-liked.